Small Aspirations


On March 7th, my best friend Brian lost his battle with cancer and passed away. Brian and I had been friends for twenty plus years, and throughout that time he dealt a lot with my confidence issues. He worked hard to make me see the positives instead of the negatives in life. That being said, you can imagine how much love and light he brought into my life. Now that he's gone I am on my own to keep myself from falling into negative self-talk. One thing I have decided to do is write small aspirations on sticky notes and place them on my mirror. Since I look in the mirror first thing in the morning while I am getting ready I have noticed that they have definitely made an impact on how I begin my day. That's why I wanted to add some light into your life by sharing 15 small everyday aspirations.

15 Small Aspirations
1. Smile a lot
2. Be happy
3. Step outside of your comfort zone
4. Discover a new workout class
5. Be passionate
6. Show love
7. Value nature
8. Be a goal digger
9. Laugh a lot
10. Compliment others
11. Be happy
12. Find the good
13. Care less about others acceptance
14. Reduce overthinking
15. Think "Yes I can"


8 Tips to Opening Yourself to Love


Where my single ladies at? This one is for you! I started writing this article in December, and was going to throw it at you in January and get all cheesy about how we make resolutions for so many things in our lives, why not resolve in matters of the heart. Then, I decided to step back from that aspect, at least the whole new years resolution cheesy part of it. If 2018 wasn’t your year in the relationship department, maybe 2019 is the time to refocus on you and what your heart needs. Here are seven tips that will help open yourself up to finding love.



1. Start with yourself
Write down all the good qualities you have as a mate and all your bad qualities. Pick two good qualities you want to improve that would make you even more attractive to potential mates. Now pick two negative qualities you can reduce or eliminate that will make you more attractive. 
I will give you two personal examples: my good quality is I am very caring and like to do little things for people that matter to me. My biggest negative quality is I have body image issues and constantly call myself “fat”, and dismiss compliments. 


2. Get off the dating apps and sites
Relationship sites claim that one in five relationships start online. That means four in five start offline. Follow the offs and get out there. Expanding your social circle, taking new workout classes…etc will increase your chances of finding that special someone. 



3. Clean up your living space
Prepare your space with the intent that you’re getting it ready to entertain a potential partner. If your space is dirty and cluttered, it conditions your mind to think that your space is not ready for someone and gives you the excuse not to meet potential suiters. 



4. Get rid of things that remind you of your ex…. thank you, next!
Your ex is an ex for a reason, if reminders are around they will trigger your mind to think about your ex instead of shifting your focus to meeting someone new and wonderful.



5. Know the qualities you want in a potential mate
Make a list of things you want and stick to it. Don’t waver your desires or compromise for someone just for the sake of being in a relationship. Wait for Mr. Right and not Mr. Right Now. 




6. It’s okay to be single
Being hard on yourself because you are single manipulates you into feelings of despair. Forgiving yourself creates hope for what’s to come and eventually feelings of happiness. Positive vibes are far more attractive than negative ones, so be kind to yourself.



7. Read the book The Five Love Languages (singles edition) by Gary Chapman
Learn what your love language is so you know what you require in a relationship. 



8. Listen
Most people love to talk, but few are really good listeners. When you pay close attention, you can learn so much about someone.

How to make a Sear-iously Awesome Steak

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Who loves a good steak? Who knows how to make a good steak at home? Most importantly, who knows how to buy a good cut of meat? I’ll be honest with you, I used to be terrible at picking a perfect cut of meat. I would go to specific steak houses of hibachi restaurants just so I could get a good steak. That is until I went to a local grocery store with an amazing butcher her taught me everything I needed to know to make a delicious steak at home, and now I am going to share the details with you. Ladies, being able to make a steak at home is going to save you so much money. 

First you will need to make sure you have a cast iron skillet - this is the secret to amazing steak. You will also need salt and pepper, vegetable oil and of course steak. 

Good steaks include: ribeye, t-bone, strip, top sirloin. Chuck or Round is no good. Also filet mignon is good, however ribeyes are just as tasty and definitely cheaper. 

So let’s get to perfecting that steak.

First you will want to let the steak come to room temperature as well as heat your oven to  400 degrees Fahrenheit. If it’s frozen you will want to let it thaw in the fridge first. Season that baby! Rub salt and pepper into both sides of the steak. Heat the pan on high, add a teaspoon of oil and heat it until it smokes. Place the steak on the pan and cook for 5-6 minutes, it should have some browning and come up off the pan easily. Don’t forget to flip it, and cook it for another 5 minutes.

Take the pan off the stove and put it in the oven. Now you have think about how you like your steak, that will determine how ,long it cooks in the oven for.
Medium Rare: 3-5 minutes in the oven

Medium: 8-10 minutes in the oven

Medium Well: 10-12 minutes in the oven


Once cooked to perfection remove it from the oven and let it sit for 5 minutes. This will ensure you have a ridiculously juicy steak… yum! Trust me, you’ll definitely love this recipe and not regret learning how to cook a steak sooner. 

Now let’s get back to talking about steaks and how to tell a good one. I highly recommend visiting a local butcher shop to ask them questions about meat cuts, and how to tell what a good piece of meet is.  Look into into butcher shop sarasota if you live in Florida, to learn about cuts and marbling. Butcher shops are able to physically show you the differences in meats, where I can really only do my best to explain them to you. In most cases you can get a reasonable piece of meat, and all the sides such as mashed potatoes (my favorite) for less then a meal at a restaurant. Let me know where you like to get your meat from and if you have any tips for me!

Tone It Up Galentine's Day


On Saturday morning I headed to Southfield to meet up with 60+ like-minded babes for the TIU Michigan 2nd Annual Galentine’s Day get-together. Being apart of the Tone It Up (TIU) community has been absolutely amazing. I have gone to barre, brunch, Chicago and even meetups in the woods - and all have been so much fun. The babes I have met and friendships that have been created will last a lifetime and Saturday was no exception. We started the morning with a little meet and greet, Kundalini Yoga, followed by healthy snacks and plenty of swag from all of our amazing sponsors. 

I’m sure most of you have not heard of Kundalini Yoga before, well it is a blend of Bhakti Yoga (the practice of devotion and chanting), Raja Yoga (the practice of meditation/ mental and physical control) and Shakti Yoga (the expression of power and energy). The goal of a well-taught class is to leave you feeling like you’ve gone to a therapy session, had a great workout, made it to your yoga mat and enjoyed a fun singing session with friends.

Last year at the first Tone It Up Galentine’s event I tried Kundalini Yoga for the first time and absolutely loved it. Therefore I was definitely excited to give it a try again this year. 

Kundalini Yoga incorporates movement, dynamic breathing techniques, meditation and the chanting of mantras, such as “Sat Nam” which means “truth is my identity.” The goal of the practice is to build physical vitality and increase consciousness. What I really loved about Kundalini Yoga is how it makes me feel about myself, it gives me so much body positivity and really makes me want to be better to my body and to myself. I truly feel like Kundalini helps get rid of negative energy and see things in a positive light which is 100 percent what I need in my life. I will do an entire post later on Kundalini Yoga so stay tuned! 




After yoga, we got our snack on. We each brought a snack to share, so after our little photo shoot and yoga we indulged in some goodies. From salads and fruit to dessert hummus, pigs in a blanket and protein muffins there were plenty of goodies to indulge in. I am already excited about our next meetup with these wonderful babes. 









Legally Blonde the Musical


Oh my God, oh my God you guys - Legally Blonde the Musical is a girly girl must-see! The musical follows the same story line as the lovable movie starring Reese Witherspoon, however this time it’s all singing. If you’re looking for a fun girls night out I highly recommend checking out the show. The nonstop sugar rush Legally Blonde the Musical supplies will have you on your feet applauding at the end of the show.


Coming to Detroit: The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical

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Get excited Detroit, The Lightning Thief is headed to the Fisher Theatre from February 26 - March 9, 2019 - and it's sure to be a fun filled evening.

THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL, an “electrifying” (Newsday)  musical adaption of the New York Times best-selling novel written by Rick Riordan, will play Detroit’s Fisher Theatre,
 
Tickets start at $49 and are now on sale. Tickets can be purchased online at www.broadwayindetroit.com or www.ticketmaster.com, and by phone at 800-982-2787.
 
With more than 100 million copies of the book series sold worldwide, this global phenomenon has found a new home on the live stage in a "mesmerizing" theatrical event that proves "lightning can strike twice!" (TheaterMania). Following a sold out run in New York City, where it garnered 3 Drama Desk Award nominations, including Best Musical, this "winning adaptation" (The Hollywood Reporter) is coming to rock Detroit.
 
As a son of Poseidon, Percy Jackson has newly discovered powers he can’t control, monsters on his trail, and is on a quest to find Zeus’ lightning bolt to prevent a war between the Greek gods. Based on the best-selling novel by Rick Riordan and featuring a thrilling original rock score, THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL is an action-packed theatrical adventure that has been celebrated by audiences and critics alike.
 
THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL has a Drama Desk nominated book by Joe Tracz, music and lyrics by Rob Rokicki, and is directed by Stephen Brackett, with choreography by Patrick McCollum, with set design by Lee Savage, costume design by Sydney Maresca, lighting design by David Lander, Obie award winning sound design by Ryan Rumery, fight direction by Rod Kinter and orchestrations by Wiley DeWeese and Rob Rokicki. The production is being presented by special arrangement with Rick Riordan and the Gallt & Zacker Literary Agency.
THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL is produced by TheaterWorksUSA, Martian Entertainment, Greg Schaffert, Lang Entertainment Group, Lisa Chanel, Jennifer Doyle and Roy Lennox, Glass Half Full Productions, Hummel/Greene, Mary Maggio, Tim Schwider, and Van Dean/Meredith Lucio in partnership with The Road Company.
 
More information about THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL is available at http://www.lightningthiefmusical.com/
 
Follow THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL on social media:
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Performance times for THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL appearing February 26 – March 9, 2019 at the Fisher Theatre, located at 3011 West Grand Blvd., in Detroit are:
 
·        Monday, March 4 performance at 7:30 p.m.
·        Tuesday – Saturday evening performances at 7:30 p.m.
·        Sunday evening performance at 6:30 p.m.
·        Thursday, March 7 matinee at 1:00 p.m.
·        Saturday matinee at 2:00 p.m.
·        Sunday matinee at 1:00 p.m.
·        Special open captioned performance on Monday, March 4 at 7:30 p.m.
 
Tickets for THE LIGHTNING THIEF: THE PERCY JACKSON MUSICAL start at $49 (includes facility and parking fees) and are now on sale. Tickets can be purchased online at www.broadwayindetroit.com or www.ticketmaster.com, and by phone at 800-982-2787. A limited number of premium seats will be available through Ticketmaster and at the Fisher Theatre box office. For group sales (12 or more) please call 313-871-1132 or email groups@broadwayindetroit.com. Tickets for the open captioned performance may be purchased in person at The Fisher Theatre box office or by phone at 313-872-1000, ext. 0. Performance schedule, prices and cast are subject to change without notice.
 
Broadway In Detroit uses Ticketmaster as its sole, authorized ticketing agent. Individual tickets purchased from a ticket broker or “third party” ticket reseller involves risk and may not be authentic, sold at box office prices, or with correct performance and venue information. Broadway In Detroit box offices cannot reprint or replace lost or stolen tickets sold through a third party or ticket reseller. Broadway In Detroit is also unable to contact third party purchasers with pertinent updates or changes regarding performances.

Chocolate Covered Strawberries


Chocolate covered strawberries are a Valentine’s Day staple. You’ll find them at nearly every bakery and grocery store in town, but sometimes they come with a hefty price tag. I actually was at a bakery recently that was selling these bad boys for $5 EACH. That’s absolutely insane and is the reason why this year I decided to make my own. I actually went to Aldi and bought strawberries, Aldi melting chocolate and a variety jar of sprinkles. All which cost under $6!

Chocolate covered strawberries are not only great for Valentine’s Day, but they’re the perfect dessert option for a romantic night in, girls night, a bridal shower and more. You may think that chocolate covered strawberries are too difficult to make, but the truth is they’re not. With my tips and tricks, you can easily impress anyone with your beautiful berries. 


Strawberries can be tricky to purchase depending on the time of year. My favorite berries are when I can pick them from a local Michigan farm in June, but it’s February and not June so I had to head to the grocery store. The tastiest strawberries are actually the small ones, the larger berries typically have little to no flavor at all. You’ll also want to find berries that have good stems that you can hold onto as you dip the berry into the chocolate.
 Your berries should be dry when you dip them. So make sure you wash them, and then place them on paper towel allowing plenty of time for them to dry. The chocolate cannot adhere to a wet berry, not to mention water and chocolate do not mix well together.

Picking your chocolate. I actually believe this is a personal preference. I don’t like using mini chips at all, but some people do. Sometimes I will go to a cake supply store and buy chocolate melts from them, and times like this I just buy my chocolate from Aldi. Whatever chocolate you prefer is the kind you should use for your berries. You can use a double boiler to melt the chocolate, or if you want an easy alternative, put it in a bowl in the microwave and melt it on defrost.





Peppermint Chocolate Swiss Roll

Impress your significant other this Valentine’s Day with this decadent, yet simple, Peppermint Chocolate Swiss Roll. Have you ever made a swiss roll cake? It looks pretty tricky to make, doesn’t it? Well, to be honest, it’s actually super simple. Instead of it being a regular cake recipe, you’ll want to make a sponge cake. What’s the difference between a regular cake and a sponge cake? Well, this one is made up of flour, sugar, and eggs, no butter and oil. Once you whip up the batter for this cake you’ll pour it into a large jelly roll pan that has been lined with parchment paper, and once it’s done you will immediately turn the cake out onto a flour sake towel that is heavily coated in powdered sugar - this is so it doesn’t stick. You’ll roll the cake up in the towel, starting at the short side. Then you’ll want to let it completely cool before you unroll it and spread the Hudsonville Peppermint Stick Ice Cream on it.

Peppermint Chocolate Swiss roll

For the batter: 

4 eggs, divided

1/2 cup + 1/3 cup sugar divided

1 teaspoon vanilla

1/2 cup flour

1/3 cup cocoa powder

1/2 teaspoon baking powder

1/4 teaspoon baking soda

1/8 teaspoon salt

1/3 cup water



Directions

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

2. Line a 10x15 inch jelly roll pan with parchment paper.

3. Grease the parchment paper with cooking spray.

4. In a mixing bowl, use an electric hand mixer to beat the egg whites until soft peaks (peaks will fall when you lift the beaters).

5. While mixing, slowly add in the 1/2 cup of sugar and beat until stiff peaks form.

6. In a bowl of a stand mixer with a whisk attachment, beat egg yolks on medium speed for 3 minutes. 

7. Add 1/3 cup sugar and vanilla.

8. Beat for 2 more minutes.

9. In another bowl, mix flour, cocoa powder, baking powder, baking soda and salt together.

10. Alternate adding the flour mixture and the 1/3 cup water to the egg yolk mixture in the stand mixer.

11. When thoroughly combined, fold the chocolate batter into the egg whites a little at a time.

12. Stir until completely combined.

13. Spread the batter onto the prepared baking sheet.

14. Bake for 12-15 minutes or until toothpick comes out clean.

15. While the cake bakes coat your bowl with powdered sugar.

16. When the cake is complete, immediately turn it onto the towel.

17. Remove the parchment paper from the cake. 

18. Starting at the narrow end begin to roll the cake up in the towel. 

19. Let the cake completely cool.

20. Carefully unroll the cooled cake.

21. Spread the ice cream evenly over the entire surface.

22. Roll the cake back up in the same way you did before, but this time without the towel.

23. Cover the cake in plastic wrap.

24. Place it in the freezer for at least 3 hours. 

25. When ready to serve add a chocolate ganache. 

26. Enjoy!



















Winter Blast Weekends in Detroit


From ice sculptures to polar plunges, food trucks, pop-up shops and more Quicken Loans Winter Blast located in Campus Martius in Detroit is one place you'll want to stop. Did I mention, they have free ice skating during Winter Blast Weekends. Check out Winter Blast with your family, friends or significant other, no matter who you go with you're sure to have a blast! Here are a few of my favorite pictures from my time at Winter Blast yesterday.





Spring 2019: Zoya Innocence


Are you thinking about spring? I know I am, this snow can go away, because this girl is ready for tulips and peonies. While I sit here and wait for the snow and ice to melt, I am excited to check out Zoya's beauty spring collection Innocence. This collection contains six beautiful colors that are sure to easily transition you from winter to spring. Brightness and softness collide together to create one of my favorite collections they have released. Let's take a closer look at the colors in this collection.

Birch
Birch is a soft lavender cream, this feminine hue definitely channels garden party vibes.

Agnes
Agnes is a muted soft blush cream, any girly girl is sure to love. This color is perfect for home or the office.

Evette
Evette is a grape cream that is sure to brighten your day.

Aire
Aire is a dusty periwinkle blue cream, that channels the night sky in the summer.

Fern
Fern is an army-like sage hue with a pearl accent and is a spring must-have.

Theo
Theo channels those springtime thunderstorms with its stormy grey color and subtle texture, combined with silver flakes and dark blue glitter. This is one of the most unique colors I have come across and I absolutely adore it.

All in all, I absolutely LOVE this collection. It's definitely a feminine collection with a touch of edge, which I adore. Order yours today! 

Coming to Detroit: Rodgers + Hammerstein's Cinderella GIVEAWAY CLOSED

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Detroiters Rodgers + Hammerstein's Cinderella is coming to Detroit from Friday, March 29 - Sunday March 31, 2019, and I am hooking one lucky winner up with a 4-Pack of tickets to see the performance on Friday, March 29. Details for entering are below. Good luck to everyone who enters.



Rodgers + Hammerstein's CINDERELLA, the 2013 Tony® Award-winning Broadway musical from the creators of The King & I and The Sound of Music, will play the Fox Theatre for a limited engagement from Friday, March 29 through Sunday, March 31 as part of the Fox Theatre Series, and I am so excited for the show. Last year Rodgers + Hammerstein's CINDERELLA came to the Fisher Theatre and A and I went to go see it for my birthday. The show is not Disney, therefore you'll find quite a few changes throughout the show. However I absolutely loved it, and cannot wait to attend this year with some girlfriends. This performance would be great to take your family to, go with a significant other or checkout with your besties.


Tickets (starting at $34) are on sale now and can be purchased at 313Presents.com, Little Caesars Arena XFINITY box office and Ticketmaster.com. To charge tickets by phone, call (800) 745-3000.

Fox Theatre Series subscription packages and discounts for groups of 10+ are available by calling the Olympia Entertainment Group Sales Department at (313) 471-3099. Subscription packages include savings of up to 20 percent when purchasing three or more Fox Theatre Series titles.

With its fresh new take on the beloved tale of a young woman who is transformed from a chambermaid into a princess, this hilarious and romantic Rodgers + Hammerstein's CINDERELLA combines the story's classic elements – glass slippers, pumpkin, and a beautiful ball along with some surprising twists. More than just a pretty face with the right shoe size, this Cinderella is a contemporary figure living in a fairytale setting. She is a spirited young woman with savvy and soul who doesn't let her rags or her gowns trip her up in her quest for kindness, compassion and forgiveness. She longs to escape the drudgery of her work at home and instead work to make the world a better place. She not only fights for her own dreams, but forces the prince to open his eyes to the world around him and realize his dreams too.

Rodgers + Hammerstein’s CINDERELLA has music by Richard Rodgers, lyrics by Oscar Hammerstein II, a new book by Douglas Carter Beane and original book by Oscar Hammerstein II. Originally directed by Mark Brokaw and choreographed by Josh Rhodes, the tour is directed by Gina Rattan and choreographed by Lee Wilkins. Music adaptation and arrangements are by David Chase and music supervision is by Greg Anthony Rassen. Orchestrations are by Bill Elliott and are adapted from the original Broadway orchestrations by Danny Troob.

One of Rodgers + Hammerstein's most popular titles, Rodgers + Hammerstein’s CINDERELLA was written for television -- debuting in 1957 starring Julie Andrews. In 2013, the show made its long-overdue Broadway debut. Along with CINDERELLA, Richard Rodgers and Oscar Hammerstein's legendary musicals include OKLAHOMA!, Carousel, The King and I, South Pacific and The Sound of Music.

Mr. Beane's book for Rodgers + Hammerstein’s CINDERELLA blends masterfully with the musical's cherished score with songs including "In My Own Little Corner," "Impossible/It's Possible," "Ten Minutes Ago" and "Do I Love You Because You're Beautiful?"

The creative team includes scenic design by Tony® Award nominee Anna Louizos, costume design by six-time Tony® Award-winner William Ivey Long, lighting design by Tony® Award-winner Kenneth Posner and sound design by Tony® Award nominee Nevin Steinberg.

The Rodgers + Hammerstein’s CINDERELLA tour is produced by Work Light Productions. CINDERELLA was produced on Broadway by Robyn Goodman, Jill Furman, Stephen Kocis, Edward Walson, Venetian Glass Productions, The Araca Group, Luigi Caiola & Rose Caiola, Roy Furman, Walt Grossman, Peter May/Sanford Robertson, Glass Slipper Productions LLC/Eric Schmidt, Ted Liebowitz/James Spry, Blanket Fort Productions and in association with Center Theatre Group.

For more information please visit www.CinderellaOnBroadway.com
Facebook: Facebook.com/CinderellaTheMusical
Twitter: @CinderellaBway

Performance Schedule:
Friday, March 29    7:30 p.m.
Saturday, March 30    2 p.m. & 7:30 p.m.
Sunday, March 31    1 p.m. & 6:30 p.m.

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Relationship Intentions


If you’ve been following along this year, you know that I recapped 2018 and set my intentions for 2019. The trend there is 2019 is all about being a goal-getter and going after what I want so I can live a more fulfilled life instead of being the girl that says “no” to a boat ride because I’m too insecure to wear a bathing suit.



I’ve set my intentions for work, wellness, finance…etc - and then some of you asked about my intentions for my love life…yikes! That was something that I didn’t really think about, but a lot of you wanted help with, and frankly I could use a little help as well. Plus it’s the first day of the month of love so why not talk about relationships. When I first started writing this I was going to tell you to write this list with your significant other, however I am going to retract that. I think it’s important to have your own intentions and be mindful of them - plus this might just lead you to being in the best relationship of your life by 2020. For those of you that are engaged, married and such this is for you too. These ideas are general ones that everyone could be implementing into their relationship.



1. Focus on finding the good. It’s no secret that optimism and gratitude make for a happy life, I even have this as one of my intentions for the year. Finding the good isn’t just an individual effort, it’s critical for a happy and healthy relationship too. It’s easy to notice and vocalize what your partner is doing wrong, which can lead to resentment on both side. We’ve all found ourselves thinking about our partner’s flaws, but try to reframe from these negative thoughts and think about what you like about them and what they do to make your life better. Start noticing more of the good, instead of the bad.



2. Plan more dates. With busy schedules sometimes the word “date” needs to be reevaluated. A date should be any time the two of you get quality alone time (dinner, a movie, grabbing coffee together, etc). If you have to schedule the date and say every Wednesday night we will do something just us, do that.

3. Learn your partner’s love language. I highly recommend picking up a copy of Dr. Gary Chapman’s #1 New York Times Bestseller, The Five Love Languages (there are various additions - I read the singles one). At the end of the book there is a quiz each you and your partner should take. This quiz will tell you what your love language is: Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts and Physical Touch. Once you each know your love language, this will help you interact with your partner better, which will help make both parties feel more appreciated.



4. Tell him/her what you want. No one reads minds, I don’t know if you know that or not - but it’s true. You have to say what you want, and mean what you say. Working on communicating exactly what you want from your partner and listening when they communicate with you will be key to a success relationship.



5. Set career and life goals to achieve together. It’s that time of the year where we are all setting our own intentions for the new year, but did you ever think of including your partner in on them. Your partner is someone (well should be someone) who will help hold you accountable to reach the career goals they know you want to accomplish. When you share personal goals and make goals together it will help you feel like you’re on a team, which leads to a more confident relationship. 



6. Try something you both haven’t done before. It’s easy to get into the routine of I have done X before, but you haven’t so lets go try it. While that’s great for a few things get a little adventurous and make your relationship fresh and new. Try a new type of food together, go rock climbing, visit a city neither of you have been to…etc.



7. Plan a trip. Scheduling and going on a trip together could be a complete game changer for your relationship. Not only does it get you both out of your comfort zone, you’re forced to spend quality time together which leads to gaining a stronger connection. Even if you can’t afford a trip away, do something that gets you active in something besides a simple dinner out together.



8. Affection. You know the high of a new relationship, you have hand holding, kissing and intimacy whenever and whereever. If you don’t keep things new, fresh and spicy eventually this fades and you’re left wondering why he just won’t hold your hand anymore or kiss you on the forehead when you’re laying on the couch. Bring it all back, hold hands while you watch movies on the couch or get close and snuggle, random hugs and other things can score you points to bring back what you thought was lost.

9. Laugh more. Easier said then done sometimes if you’re not a comedian, however laughing doesn’t have to come from you - you can watch a comedy together and share laughs that way. One of my favorite memories is when A and I went bike riding and were coming up with “pet names” for each other as a joke - they were HILARIOUS and I don’t think I have ever laughed so much in my life, even now writing about it I have tears running down my face. Share and make those moments!

10. Say ‘I Love You’ more. Life is short, don’t miss your chance to tell someone who means everything to you that you love and appreciate them. This is something I struggle with, I’m afraid to say it because I am afraid of the pain and hurt that it can bring - however you never know when something can happen and you don’t want to live in the moment of regret because you didn’t say what you wanted to.



11. Forgive and forget. If you’re forgiving your partner that means you should forget it, because you’ve worked through it. You’ve seen their perspective and they have seen yours. Once you’ve forgiven that means it’s a past issue, you understand the miscommunication and you’ve worked through it. Enough said, period.



12. Change your argument language. The way you speak has a major impact on everything from your intimacy to the way you two communicate. I tend to get loud, obviously this solves nothing and makes the situation a million times worse. I’ve learned that I get loud because I am so little I feel like I am not being heard (girl EVERYONE hears you) - therefore that is something I am actively working on. I learned that I need to focus on why I felt hurt, instead of what they did that made me feel that way. Instead of saying “I understand” when the other person would make a point I would get defensive, which just made the whole situation worse. Acknowledging their defense makes a world of a difference, because now you’re both actively listening to each other. Fix the problem now so it’s not one in the future.

Waitress Seeks Young Female Actress

Detroiters, WAITRESS is coming to town and is looking for two young female actresses. Do you know anyone?

WAITRESS, the Tony nominated musical will be premiering at Detroit’s Fisher Theatre, May 7-19, 2019 for a limited engagement and is looking for two young girls to perform the role of “Lulu” for the duration of the engagement.
 
WAITRESS tells the story of “Jenna”, an expert pie baker working at a local diner and stuck in a loveless marriage.   Her salvation comes in the form of her daughter, “Lulu.”
 
The character of “Lulu” is a sweet and carefree 4 to 5-year-old who appears in the production’s finale scene.  Qualified young girls should be shorter than 4’2 and be no older than 5 years and 3 months.  Individual applicants are welcome, as are sets of twins or siblings.
 
The “Search for Lulu” will take place in Detroit on Tuesday, February 5 from 12 – 3:30 PM at the Fisher Theatre, located at 3011 W. Grand Blvd.  The audition will consist of the child reading two lines from the show. If possible, parents should bring a current head shot and resume for each child. Headshot, resume and prior acting experience is not required.
 
Parents or legal guardians must register their child for a time slot in advance of the auditions using Sign Up Genius at this link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/luluauditionsdetroit.  A limited number of time slots are available, and auditions strictly limited to the first 36 people who sign-up.  No walk-ups will be allowed on the day of the auditions.
 
The character of “Lulu” will be cast locally in each tour market and two girls are chosen to share the role.  Each girl chosen will perform in 4 performances each week during the two-week engagement.
 
Brought to life by a groundbreaking all-female creative team, this irresistible new hit features original music and lyrics by 6-time Grammy nominee Sara Bareilles (“Brave,” “Love Song”), a book by acclaimed screenwriter Jessie Nelson (“I Am Sam”) and direction by Tony Award winner Diane Paulus (Finding Neverland, Pippin, Hair).
 
Inspired by Adrienne Shelley’s beloved film WAITRESS tells the story of Jenna – a waitress and expert pie maker, Jenna dreams of a way out of her small town and loveless marriage.  A baking contest in a nearby county and the town’s new doctor may offer her a chance at a fresh start, while her fellow waitresses offer their own recipes for happiness.  But Jenna must summon the strength and courage to rebuild her own life.
 
“It’s an empowering musical of the highest order!” raves the Chicago Tribune.  “WAITRESS is a little slice of heaven!” says Entertainment Weekly and “a monumental contribution to Broadway!” according to Marie Claire.  Don’t miss this uplifting musical celebrating friendship, motherhood, and the magic of a well-made pie.
 
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Performance times for WAITRESS appearing May 7 - 19, 2019 at the Fisher Theatre, located at 3011 West Grand Blvd., in Detroit are:
·         Tuesday – Saturday evening performances at 8:00 p.m.
·         Sunday evening performances at 7:30 p.m.
·         Saturday & Sunday matinees at 2:00 p.m.
·         Special open captioned performance on Sunday, May 12 at 7:30 p.m.
 
Tickets for WAITRESS start at $39 (includes facility and parking fees) and are now on sale. Tickets can be purchased online at www.broadwayindetroit.com or www.ticketmaster.com, and also by phone at 800-982-2787. A limited number of premium seats will be available through Ticketmaster and at the Fisher Theatre box office. For group sales (12 or more) please call 313-871-1132 or email groups@broadwayindetroit.com. Tickets for the open captioned performance may be purchased in person at the Fisher Theatre box office or by phone at 313-872-1000, ext. 0. Performance schedule, prices and cast are subject to change without notice.
 
Broadway In Detroit uses Ticketmaster as its sole, authorized ticketing agent. Individual tickets purchased from a ticket broker or “third party” ticket reseller involves risk and may not be authentic, sold at box office prices, or with correct performance and venue information. Broadway In Detroit box offices cannot reprint or replace lost or stolen tickets sold through a third party or ticket reseller. Broadway In Detroit is also unable to contact third party purchasers with pertinent updates or changes regarding performances.